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Friday, 04 May 2012
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why write...
I think the best piece of advice that I’ve read about writing from numerous sources is to keep on doing it. Don’t stop. Even when you feel you have nothing to write about write something. I think when I originally started writing a blog way back, after year 12 before uni started and I had three months off, I really wrote because I wanted something to record my daily comings and goings. Reading those old entries nowadays just makes me cringe. They just seem to be so silly and pointless, I suppose as I’ve gotten older reading it just reminds me how carefree I used to be. The only things that bothered me were when the next assignment or exam was. Studying was the number one priority (well it was meant to be -_-“). I also hated the writing style of my old entries. I do think that as we get older the way we write changes, maybe it’s just that our perspective of the world changes and is thus reflected in how we express ourselves.
But reading old entries makes me reflect on what I used to consider important, what kind of concerns I used to have, who I was. Certainly a lot has changed but it reminds me that even as we grow up everything we used to value even if we no longer do has shaped part of who we are. I’m glad that I have it, it’s a time capsule of who I am reminding me how much I’ve changed or in some ways how much I’ve stayed the same.
I remember a friend once told me when I first started blogging that my blog was boring and back then I remember feeling kind of offended. Now getting that same comment would probably make me smile, after all writing a blog entry is just something for me to help me remember what I thought at that one point in time, maybe those thoughts are boring – that’s fine, their mine and for that one moment in time I chose to record them. When I read it next maybe many years down the track I will look back on that entry and remember why I thought that and what happened to make me think that. Every blog entry is like a memory in case your own ever gets a bit rusty
.“Write your story as it needs to be written. Write it honestly, and tell it as best you can. I'm not sure that there are any other rules. Not ones that matter.” – Neil Gaiman
Thursday, 26 April 2012
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worth the hype...
A movie event five years in the making. The Avengers. Was it worth the hype? The short answer is yes. When Iron Man hit the cinemas in 2008, that final post credits scene was the promise of things to come. That scene set the blogosphere abuzz with rumours of a superhero team up a movie and now in 2012 it has finally arrived.

I have been devouring every single piece of news about The Avengers ever since it started pre-production, every bit of speculation about characters to storyline. Watching all of the movies as they came out, meeting each of the individuals before they became a team. Iron Man first, followed by The Incredible Hulk (though I don’t really know if this counts as canon seeing as they changed actor but we’ll assume so, after all Tony Stark was in the post credits scene), Iron Man 2 (a disappointment to critics and fans alike, personally I enjoyed it), Thor and finally Captain America: The First Avenger. Basically I have been super looking forward to this movie for a really long time, anyone of the people who know me will tell you about how much I’ve been raving about this film for years, I suppose part of the joy of being a fan is not just seeing the final product but the anticipation as well. What The Avengers had to accomplish was still tell all of their individual stories and yet keep a cohesive narrative. I think they did it well.
Watching the interplay between the characters is a large part of what was so special about The Avengers. We’ve gotten a chance to really get to know these characters over the past couple of years when they were headlining their own films. We have certain expectations about how these characters will act based on what we have seen of them before. The Avengers didn’t disappoint in this aspect at all, Tony Stark was his usual snarky self, good ol’ Cap was still the consummate soldier yet with his moral compass always firmly fixed in the right direction, Bruce Banner mild and unassuming with that hidden rage bubbling just below the surface and Thor with his family issues largely on display, Loki was the bad guy in the film after all. Each of the superheroes acted accordingly to how you would expect when forced to work together. Robert Downey Jr. as Iron Man really got the starring role with his interactions with each of the other superheroes my favourite parts of the film.
The action was top notch with the fight scenes being visually stunning. The superheroes fighting one another, as they are wont to do when you have that much ego in one place, were awesome. The final set piece was magnificent. It kept you on the edge of the seat constantly engaged and was actually pretty epic as opposed to the previous superhero movies where fans have been left somewhat disappointed with the climatic battle scenes. I think a major problem with many action films in recent years is that they're too long and as the action wears on you start to feel it, but no such thing with The Avengers. Action fans will definitely have nothing to complain about in this film.
Joss Whedon was the perfect choice for director and co-writer and his mark can clearly be seen in film. His position as geek royalty was a major plus when he was tapped to direct The Avengers and it has clearly been firmly cemented by this film. Classic Whedon can be seen throughout the film from the smart, snappy and humourous dialogue to *SPOILER* the killing off of Agent Coulson (the trope of Joss Whedon killing of his characters rears its head again i.e. Wash, Spike, Doyle), one of the most unexpected and tragic deaths, I’ll admit I teared *END SPOILER*. The fact that he himself was a fan of the comics was a huge win for the movie; it really added a certain depth to all the relationships in the film that he had seen in the comics. The little nods to the comic were especially cool but yet not so overt that they would be considered fan service. Really couldn’t have picked anyone better.
I am completely and utterly blown away by The Avengers and I’ll definitely be watching it again. Even if you haven’t watched a single Marvel film watch it anyways, you will not be disappointed. Marvel has shown that not only do they know how to market a movie to the masses; they certainly know how to make a movie that is worth all the hype.
Tuesday, 24 April 2012
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why I love travelling...
Every person has a different idea of what they consider valuable. I was having a discussion with some friends talking about going travelling. I would rather spend my hard earned cash on a trip overseas while some of my friends would rather save up for a big ticket item i.e. car, laptop, bag etc. They just didn’t value travel as much.
I can’t possibly fathom the idea of someone who doesn’t like travelling. But thinking about it I have actually met people who just don’t like it. They have no desire to go see the world and are content to stay where they are. Nothing wrong with that at all, I just absolutely love it. I don’t know when I exactly fell in love with travelling but I do know I couldn’t possibly imagine not going travelling. The world is a big place so full of things that we can discover. Whenever I think of travelling I am reminded of this quote from St. Augustine, “The world is a book, and those who do not travel read only a page.” It probably appeals to me even more because I happen to love reading too. I always think of how true that quote is – a book tells a story but if you only read one page you have no idea what the whole book is about. Travelling the world helps you gain a better understanding of the world and life and how we relate to the people around us. So what exactly inspires wanderlust in me, why do I love travelling?
- Sightseeing – I know there are actually a lot of travellers who actually don’t enjoy sightseeing but I love it. Part of the reason I travel is to go see those far-flung and iconic places you only see in the movies or on the television. Sure they may be tourist traps but I love it nonetheless. There’s a reason these places are so famous – they’re amazing!

The Eiffel Tower is totally worth the long lines and heaps of tourists :)
- Trying new food – I love eating and I love going to all the places around the world and just sampling the different cuisines. Every country has its own specialties and they all taste so different. Pasta in Italy, BBQ in Korea, hawker food in Malaysia, burgers in USA are only some that I’ve tried, there are so many more. Sure you can find the food here in Australia but nothing tastes better than having a meal from the place it originated – there’s something special about eating and being surrounded by the people and culture related to that particular dish.

Amazing handmade pasta in Bologna (not the birthplace of bolognaise - FYI)
- Break from routine – in everyday life there’s a routine, whether you’re studying or working, life follows a cycle, you wake up go to work or uni/school, come home eat, maybe go out or stay in, sleep and the day begins again. Travel allows you to just take a break from daily life, everyday there is something different to do or see or experience. No fixed schedule it’s just a constant state of thinking “What will tomorrow bring?” I love that feeling of no expectation of what the next day will bring but rather a sense of wonder and hope of all the possibilities.

It's not everyday we get to celebrate Mum's birthday on top of the Seattle Space Needle!
- Discovering the good in people – travelling isn’t always a smooth journey, you’re bound to get lost or get into some sort of trouble. But the great thing about the world and people in it is from what I have seen on all my trips and what I’ve always believed is that people in general are inherently good. They will go that extra mile to help you out especially if they see you are a traveller. I know that many people say to be cautious when travelling and I agree, don’t just go about trusting every person you meet, but I don’t think you should be so careful that you won’t even ask for help when you need it.

The portrait artist offered to do Dad's portrait for free after he did mine - such a nice guy!
- Meeting new people – it’s always great to make new friends even in every day life. Even more fun to make friends with people from other countries and cultures there is so much that can be learned from them and they make the best tour guides, after all they speak the language and know all the good places to go. And more often than not you make friends that will last you for life.

Made lots of new friends at the ICYC in Korea - awesome times!
- Memories – I remember every trip I’ve been on and on each there are moments that every time I recall them they make me laugh. I wouldn’t trade those memories for anything in the world. Sure there are memories here at home but it’s not the same. When you think of somewhere you’ve been you immediately think of that particular incident and it brings a smile to your face. Going on those trips guarantee you with experiences you’ll never forget i.e. eating terrible KFC at Niagara Falls, Dad getting chased by dogs on Mt Pilatus, getting stuck in Verona train station overnight. Each of these memories are so firmly fixed in my memory that even when I get older I think I’ll still recall them to regale my grandkids with.

Nob and I after going on the Mt Everest rollercoaster - Mum and Dad decided to go on it too - Mum got really angry after - it was hilarious :P
Every couple of months I get the travel bug and feel the need to go on a trip to see some far off place. The idea of taking off a year and going on a Round-The-World trip actually really appeals to me but as much as I would love to it’s just not a practical thing to do right now. Maybe somewhere down the track I’ll be able to do it. Right now I am content to just go on a trip every six months or so and spend my free time living vicariously through the other travel blogs and seeing their amazing pictures and stories as they make their way around the world.
One day. One day. In the words of Susan Sontag “I haven’t been everywhere, but it’s on my list.”
Tuesday, 17 April 2012
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is it really...
‘Tis better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all.’ – Alfred Lord Tennyson
Easily one of the most quotable quotes about love ever. I’m sure you’ve heard this quoted at least once. I was actually watching Breakout Kings last night when I heard it again (awesome show by the way – set in the same universe as Prison Break in case you’re interested). And it made me think about the merits of such a claim.
See, I belong in the second half of those people those who have never loved at all. Is it really worth the heartbreak to actually love someone? So obviously Tennyson is saying it is. I’ve seen heartbreak firsthand - I’m not so sure. I have loved obviously but not in the romantic sense of the word which I take the quote to mean. Because in terms of love in your family and friends it’s more of an unconditional love – they’re not going to fall out of love with you right?
I’ve seen what happens when people break up and most of the time it isn’t pretty. Isn’t it better to have guarded your heart rather than let it break? Lost love seems like it would be one of the most painful things to endure – taking account from those I’ve seen (not that many) and the slew of love songs that abound on the topic. Those who have experienced would probably be a much better person to talk about this topic and say whether it is worth it but from a viewpoint of someone who is in the ‘never loved at all’ category I can only speculate on what it feels like ‘to have loved and lost’.
I’ve always thought my family are the people I love the most in this world. You know the song Live Like We’re Dying and the line goes ‘Who would you call with your last goodbye?’ I would say my parents. They are the most important people in my life. But I wonder would that change if I had a significant other. Would my love for my husband be more than my love for my family? It’s something that I’m really curious about because when I ask my friends who have other halves or have had other halves they seem to pick their significant other over their family. I can’t imagine. There is no one I love more than my family and I can’t imagine feeling so strongly that I would love someone more than them. Of course there is my love for God which is different again, I’m talking earthly love.
So maybe when you really fall in love with someone they really do become your world – I still don’t know if it’s worth it. I tend to hope that if I were to fall in love I’d rather not have to fall out of it. But there’s no guarantee of it when you fall in love that it will work out. See doesn’t life seem more simple to not have loved at all?
Time will tell I suppose after all they say,
‘We love because it is the only true adventure.’ – Nikki Giovanni

So maybe it is worth it after all to go on that adventure and discover and see the world in a different light :)
Monday, 16 April 2012
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religious or philosophical...
So I just started working at Main Roads about two months ago now – anyways as there were a number of new graduates they sent us questions to answer to publish our graduate profiles. Pretty standard stuff – what I found interesting and made me laugh about my own.
So this is what came out in the newsletter (horrible picture I know -.-“) – note the red box.
This is what I actually wrote when I emailed my answers.

So that made me laugh firstly because they described me as philosophical – which I don’t particularly think I am. Secondly, it made me wonder why they didn’t write down what I wrote in regards to where I found myself in five years. They were willing to put in that one of my five passions was God but when I actually put down a verse and talked more in depth about my faith they chose to say instead that I was ‘philosophical about my future’.
Is this a comment on society that we have become so sensitive about what other people think that we can’t even talk openly about our faith in a company newsletter? Especially when they would be quoting me an employee rather than professing their own opinion, maybe they thought by quoting me and publishing it they would be agreeing with me? It just really made me think more than anything else. When I had written the answer it had gone through my mind that they may not publish it but I was surprised they used the term philosophical. Which begs the question are religion and philosophy the same?
Is being religious the same as being philosophical? It’s a hard one to discuss as there are two views about it: that they are the same or that they are inherently different. Some people point out that both deal with the meaning of life, existence, good vs. evil and so on. However where I think they differ greatly is that religion deals with belief and faith while philosophy is about knowledge and reason. It’s my faith that sets me aparts making me religious but not philosophical, then again I suppose I could be philosophical about my religious views. Anyways that’s why I wouldn’t say I was ‘philosophical about my future’. It just doesn’t seem to be in the same spirit as my answer it just was interesting is all and really made me think – not necessarily a good thing
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I'm a girl who loves God, food (eating it not making it), travelling, watching television/movies and reading. Some people call me a geek but that's all a matter of perception, anyways being a geek is totally in right now :P
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